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THE THING BEFORE PREPPY

Saturday, May 30, 2026

A Reader Question: What are the best coastal towns for starting over in/around Connecticut?

A reader question:

Hi Muffy—As you have one of the best online communities around, I wondered if I can pose a question?

I am watching the once quaint and beautiful place my family has called home for generations being destroyed in real time. Overdevelopment, over crowding, insane traffic and aggressive drivers everywhere. As we are in proximity to NYC, we are being inundated by  transplants leaving Manhattan and the boroughs and It’s only going to get worse. I am looking to get out in the next few years and have been eyeing a few towns in CT that remind me of what my area used to be like.

In researching, the best matches for my needs have been Essex, Old Saybrook, East Lyme and Niantic. Does your community have any suggestions for someone at mid life starting over in this area, or other suggestions? My most important factors are going to be quaint, quiet —but some sense of community- and coastal. Parks to walk the dogs and equestrian facilities in proximity are ideal. I promise not to be an obnoxious transplant like the people ruining my hometown!

Friday, May 29, 2026

Sunday, May 24, 2026

A Reader Question: Non-demanding, non-fiction summer reading?

A reader question:

I have enjoyed your site for years.

My wife, who has a rather stressful job, is looking for non-demanding non-fiction for summer reading.  Are there any relevant posts on this subject?  Thank you.

Dress Like the 80s...

Photo: Muffy Aldrich
When briefly in 2022, L.L. Bean not only offer this particularly good shade they called Lawn Green,  it also had the Natural color (not the typical trim color)  for the Zip-Top version, and was only available in Medium and Large...

Yes, I stocked up.


So if you order from L.L. Bean by phone, feel free to suggest they:

  • Bring back Lawn Green
  • Bring back Pink Berry
  • Bring back Natural Zip-top color option

 

Saturday, May 23, 2026