Friday, February 15, 2019

Reader Question: Balancing Minimalism

A question:
I have a question for the community regarding minimalism and the current craze of Marie Kondo. I know that there is a life span of clothing that starts with wearing to work, then wearing around the house until finally becoming gardening clothes. As a community, when we find really well-made items, we stock up on them for future years, and we have multiple sets of dishes, not to mention a lot of items inherited from family. How do we balance maintaining our heritage while not living in a museum? 
Many thanks.

Reader Question: What are Preppy Hats? (Real, not Cosplay)

A question:
Avid reader of SWNE, thanks for all you do. 
My question is thus: 
I am wondering what male headwear is most appropriate for preppy dress? In the winter I generally wear a tweed flat cap and in the summer a "dad hat" baseball cap but they always seem a bit off. What would the community recommend? 

Thoughts of Warmer Weather

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Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Reader question: Where and how should there be dress codes?

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A question for the community:
I like to think of myself as a fairly laid back millennial, left leaning and open to people expressing themselves.  But when it comes to air travel I find myself sounding more like someone's grandmother.   Is it just me or are people dressing and behaving worse than ever? 
Which brings me to my question - what do people think about dress codes?   Does dressing with more care make people behave with more care?  Is this why some clubs and professions still have more specific dress codes? 
Where and how should they be used? 

Tuesday, February 12, 2019

They Shall Not Grow Old

Muffy,  Do me a favor and post a picture of the WWI memorial next to Woodbridge Hall. I've just come from seeing They Shall Not Grow Old. Amazing. Go see it everyone, and tell people to go see it. Perspective, preppies, perspective! Felt as though I could have been looking at my grandfather and great grandfather who both fought in WWI France. Such a job well done. Stay after the credits to hear how the director did it.

April 25 1964 - Photos by Salt Water New England

Monday, February 11, 2019

Sunday, February 10, 2019

The Dogs and I...

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Reader Question: Can you still be preppy if you... (Reposted, by Request)

Photos by Salt Water New England

I don’t know why, but I have received a series of emails in the last few months that fall, bizarrely enough, in the category of contrition.  People ask me, “Can you still be preppy if…” and then list some specific things that they describe as non-preppy. I thought it might be interesting to put forth this aggregate list in the spirit of fun and see what people think.

Readers ask, “Can you still be preppy if you…”
  • Jet ski and snow board instead of sail and ski
  • Vacation at theme parks
  • Vacation on cruise ships
  • Put chemicals/fertilizers/dyed mulch on your lawn
  • Watch reality television
  • Get your suits at Jos. A Banks
  • Buy new wood furniture with a high gloss finish
  • Eat family dinners at local chain restaurant
  • Get your exercise at a gym instead of out of doors
  • Buy your clothes at a mall
  • Drive a car that gets less than 15 miles per gallon
  • (For men) Have visible product and/or highlights in hair
  • (For women) Wear more than two kinds of make-up 
  • Shop at Walmart, Kohl's, Target, Ikea and other box stores
  • Have kitchens with lots of granite and stainless steel
  • Have Louis Vuitton luggage and/or handbags
  • Get plastic surgery
  • Leave your scent in a room after you are gone
  • Come from some place other than New England
  • Get all of your antiques from shops and flea markets, rather than from family members 
  • Buy jewelry from a mall store
  • Follow NASCAR
  • Wear nail polish with sparkles
  • Drive a non-European car
  • Wear black during the day

Harbour Court

Photo by Salt Water New England

Saturday, February 9, 2019

The Great Courses by The Teaching Company

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In the mid-1990s, I was an early customer of The Great Courses by The Teaching Company.  While expensive, the cassettes - arriving in their large blue boxes - provided access to accomplished professors lecturing on their favorite topics.  Some reviewer called them, accurately, cultural literacy as performance art.  Their long form was a perfect match for needs at the time, both in length and topics.

The Great Courses now tend to be priced using the same approach as Omaha Steaks.  Nevertheless, two favorite courses from these early days are among those on their excellent CD sale this week.

One is the contemplative  God and Mankind: Comparative Religions by Robert Oden <>. 

A second, longer and more energetic, is How to Listen to and Understand Great Music by Robert Greenberg <>.

As well, many libraries today stock a collection of these great courses.  And the company itself, not unlike so many universities, has recently evolved offerings to cover more practical topics for those inclined.

They are another example, as with podcasts and directors' commentaries, how experiences once reserved for people in close proximity to cultural centers are now available to anyone who makes the effort.

Friday, February 8, 2019

Portsmouth, New Hampshire

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Thursday, February 7, 2019

Question for the Community: What have been some of the best weddings you have attended?

Photos by Salt Water New England
An amalgamated question for the community:
To give some readers ideas for their own events, as a guest, what have been some of the best weddings you have attended?   And why?  What were the details that made it interesting?  And with other weddings, what didn't you like?

Game Pocket

Photo by Salt Water New England

Wednesday, February 6, 2019

Upstairs Wallpaper

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Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Monday, February 4, 2019

Bright Skies

Photos by Salt Water New England

Some answers from this site over the years to the question: "Where does this particular SWNE way of life go in the 21st century with the next generation?"

From thoughts expressed here over the years, personal actions can include:
  • Align private and public behavior.
  • Be an environmentalist.
  • Spend as much time as possible with people who are better than you.
  • Buy hard, wear easy; own less, but great.  Buy high quality staples.  Make your retail purchases count.  Be suspicious of deep discounts. Avoid knock-offs of authentic garments.
  • Minimize buying the things that you would find in a box store.
  • The goal is to be your best self, not someone else.
  • Be frugal, not cheap.
  • Don't water down your belongings, friends, diet, or time with a lot of filler.
  • Boring is underrated.
  • Value decency and dignity.  Be around people who take their work and mission seriously, but not themselves.  
  • Work with and in moral institutions, and that have a mission in which you believe.  Avoid those institutions that pretend to still be moral but are not anymore.  
  • Be intolerant of people who are vulgar or dishonest. Virtue signaling is a warning.
  • Embrace your culture’s greatest minds and artists. 
  • Pay for news.  And avoid sites that steal photographs from others.  
  • Don’t know about things that are over-hyped. 
  • Don't take the things you value the most - such as family, health, friends, community, air and water, country - for granted.
  • Have the best rooms in your house or apartment/flat be where you do your work.
  • Make count any travel, eating out, and spontaneous purchases. 
  • Spend a bit of time at consignment shops, estate sales, and thrift shops.  Learn, but have a very high threshold for what you buy.
  • Copying the style of other people is fine in your teens, but not much past that. 
  • Listen to podcasts. Some of the greatest thinkers today are there. 
  • Know people of all ages.
  • Embrace a bit of hardship, such as cold showers, no desserts, and some toil.
  • Help people you know.  (So often saying "thoughts and prayers" without actually doing anything is the equivalent of saying "I know you need help, but I am not going to give you any.")
  • Regularly, carefully get rid of things you don’t want anymore.  Find them good homes. 

Sunday, February 3, 2019

Sorting the Cupboards

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Saturday, February 2, 2019

A Cold Day

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Friday, February 1, 2019

Question for the Community: "Where does this particular SWNE way of life go in the 21st century with the next generation?"

A reader question:
I hope you are doing well this frigid evening. I am an avid reader and wanted to thank you for all the thoughtful and enjoyable content over the past years.  
I wanted to humbly pose a question to you and your readership. Where does this particular SWNE way of life go in the 21st century with the next generation? I saw some debate of this topic in relation to the NYT Bush/WASP article(s). The values and qualities put forth by this blog are certainly in decline. The question is, are they left to die proudly or do they gradually adapt with the times? Where do people fall on this? 
I'm a millennial and have seen many of my peers run away from such a life. In its place, there has been this phenomenon of faux prepdom with 'Brad' and 'Chad'.

Thank you for your time.

The Geraghty Era

Photos by Salt Water New England of New Yorker Covers on Exhibition at a Past Westport Historical Society's Exhibit

Thursday, January 31, 2019

Question for the Community: Best Brand of Turtlenecks?

A reader question:
About 30 years ago, in upstate New York, it was easy to find high quality and long lasting cotton turtlenecks to wear under sweaters.  The brand that we often purchased was Duofold.  The neck had elastic, fit snugly, and did not lose its shape over time. I can no longer find this brand of turtleneck available.   
What brand of cotton turtleneck (or silk) does the community recommend?  Is there a particular vendor that people prefer? 
I have been disappointed, of late, with turtlenecks from L.L.Bean and Land's End.  I am not looking for a stand alone piece, but one to wear under a sweater.  
Thank you so much.

Wednesday, January 30, 2019

Tuesday, January 29, 2019

Shreve, Crump & Low

On Boylston Street from 1929 to 2012 - Photos by Salt Water New England
"I assume you are registered at Shreves..."

A Tale of Two Guernseys: Le Tricoteur and Guernsey Woollens

Le Tricoteur - Photos by Salt Wate New England
Ken's comment:
Many thanks for the feedback. I'll get a Guernsey this weekend having recently found a local retailer that offers navy and ecru versions. Btw, the Cordings sale officially ends tomorrow.

I would be interested to know, Ken, which company makes the Guernsey you get and your thoughts about it.  I have many from Le Tricoteur as well as from Guernsey Woollens.  While I like both, there are differences.