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Thursday, July 10, 2025

A Reader Question: Makeup and the preppy ethos?

My thoughts regarding cosmetics have remained the same for my entire adult life: a bright pink lipstick and a spot concealer.   However, I thought this was a great question for the community.

Dear Muffy,

Hello again from Down Under!

I hope you are going beautifully and the summer is not too hot for you. It is the depths of winter here and I am loving wearing my shetlands!

I have been thinking lately about cosmetics and their purpose. For a long while, I felt the pressure to wear foundation and cosmetics because I thought I had to wear it to look "polished" and because it was What Ladies Do. In the past few months, I have come to realise that I actually don't like how it looks on my skin (apart from some lipstick) and when I don't wear it, I feel more like myself. Also, I can't be bothered and it is expensive!

What are your thoughts about makeup and whether it is necessary? How do you think it aligns with the preppy ethos?

Regardless of whether I hear from you, thank you for writing such interesting articles for us and sharing such beautiful photos.

All my best wishes,

12 comments:

  1. My mother was adamant most makeup should be reserved for nights out, not for every day wear. Tinted lip balm and concealer were all I was allowed to wear until college, so once I had free rein, a face of makeup felt like a mask. These days I do wear a tinted moisturizer with SPF and add some color to my cheeks because I have my father’s Germanic skin tone which is the color of lightly browned butter. Nothing of our person should be artifice, including the parts we dab with cosmetics.

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  2. Since most foundation contains sunscreen in these modern times, 2 birds, 1 stone! Plus sheer-ish spf lip color and mascara for a night on the town!

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  3. My background and upbringing dictated the "no make-up" thing. But I look better with some maquillage enhancement. Collars up !!!

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  4. Healthy food, exercise, tinted moisturising sunblock, a light dusting of mascara with pink or reddish lipstick checks all the boxes and gets the job done.

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  5. I don’t wear make up. My college football coach frowned upon it

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  6. Hauschke's wonderful moisturizer, Tinted Day Cream and Penhaligon's Blue Bells. Basta

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  7. “Frowned upon it..?” There’s leeway there. Our hockey coach outright banned it.

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  8. My wife of fifty years has never worn makeup and is the better for it, health and appearance-wise. Nowadays 'appearance filters' for online photos are the rage and are quite controversial.

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  9. Darphin INTRAL Environmental Lightweight Shield Broad Spectrum SPF 50 is my go to. It has a tiny bit of fair color and is great for sensitive skin. I bit $$, but I’m a sucker for French skincare. This SPF, bit of brown, not black, mascara and lip balm and I’m out the door.

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  10. I tend toward better (not necessary expensive) skincare, good SPF, and a light touch with cosmetics. I prefer the “no-makeup” look. I’m faithful to the tinted sunscreen from Elta MD, which blurs imperfections and feels nice. If wearing foundation, I like NARS Light-reflecting because it is lightweight and looks more like natural skin with fewer imperfections.

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