Dear Muffy,
Special clothing for the holidays (emphatically not including ugly sweaters) are a longstanding prep tradition. I inherited the lovely family tartan bowtie my father always wore chiefly during the holidays. Other seasonal items I have known and loved include tartan pants (bonus points if they are in your tartan), embroidered cords, red vests, and Christmassy ties. Yesterday I saw a pretty nifty bright red and dark green schoolboy scarf. Even though these items may have a short season, I think it is nice to have one or two. What do others think? Any favorite items?
I believe seasonally correct GTH pants are a natural pairing with liberally flowing holiday cheer. I opt for true bright red cords embroidered with something like wreaths. Shades such as Breton, Nantucket (sorry, Murray's) or barn are fun but not seasonally correct. I have never been a big fan of Christmas ties with designs like twinkling lights or wrapped packages, but if your family colors are suitably festive, a tartan tie can look pretty sharp with a grey herringbone or a camel odd jacket.
ReplyDeleteTim, do you have an Irvine tartan tie? You can buy a Lochcarron Ancient Irvine tartan tie from several online stores.
DeleteYou would see me tomorrow in a “close to a black watch” tartan Nanchung silk shirt. It’s in perfect condition. And it’s 40 years old. Merry Christmas to all!
ReplyDeleteThat "goes to eleven!"
DeleteMy Christmas attire is quite simple these days. I usually wear a beautiful silver Christmas tree necklace I inherited from my mother and I sometimes wear a silver bracelets.
ReplyDeleteAs for clothes, my go-to Christmas basics are solid colored tops in black, white and deep red - all paired with black pants.
For festive color and brightness, I add one of my red or red and green scarves (one with holly and berries, for example, another a royal Stewart tartan).
No more Christmas pins and bracelets and sweaters for me.
It's a cold and rainy Christmas Eve here in Atlanta tonight. It's our first Christmas alone and apart from our family in NC and NY, but our tree lights are sparkling in the darkness and cloves and cinnamon are simmering on the stove, so it's still a magical time.
Muffy, I love your blog and appreciate the connection to New England (Tim's family originated in Plymouth) and intelligent people. We wish you and your family a very peaceful, healthy and joyful holiday!
My Yuletide ensemble is a pair of fine corduroy slacks in red, with a hunter green Shetland crewneck sweater. Merry Christmas everyone!
ReplyDeleteI wear a Christmas tree brooch from a relative two generations back. Love tartan. My favorite dress is green tartan with a blouse top and a black sash bow. I also have a read tartan skirt with a scalloped hem. Love tartan! My husband wears a green vest with a Ralph Lauren shirt that is green and red striped. Our wardrobe is the same year after year.
ReplyDeleteOur family is Scottish, so we wear tartans all year round. It's an odd Americanism to see them so strongly associated with Christmas-wear.
ReplyDeleteVery few real Scots wear tartan all year round. I only wear kilts in family tartans at weddings and other formal occasions. My family has several tartans (from Lochcarron and House of Edgar) so lots of extra points for us. It's useful to have kilts in both summer and winter weights.
DeleteAt Christmas, I usually wear a blazer and charcoal flannels with a white shirt and tartan tie. This year, however, our family Christmas has been cancelled by our Government Grinches. We have been put in Tier 4 which is, in effect, Lockdown 3. With nowhere to go, I'm relaxing at home in a tattersall shirt, shetland jumper and heavy moleskin jeans from Cordings.
@Ken: Those Cordings moleskins are bullet-proof and can stand up on their own.
DeleteI love 'em.
Two years on from the above post, the Brits are finally free from being imprisoned in our homes by their Covidiotic politicians who hypocritically flouted their lockdown laws. Thankfully, the bullying Bullingdon buffoon has been booted out of office.
DeleteHowever, the trade unions have just announced more Christmas railroad strikes so I'll be staying at home again. With temperatures dropping, I'll be wearing thick cavalry twill or whipcord trousers rather than moleskin jeans which (bizarrely) Cordings have dropped this year.
Two more years on and, despite the change of Government and big pay rises, the greedy train drivers on the London to Glasgow line are striking again. There will be few or no trains on the days around Christmas so I'll be staying at home.
DeleteOn Christmas Day. I'll probably wear a white shirt with family tartan tie, a tonal shetland jumper and charcoal English flannel trousers from Cordings. If I get invited to smart party, I could be tempted to get my family tartan kilt out of its protective cover the wardrobe.
Boxing Day is the anniversary of my dear friend's untimely passing so, in his memory, I will wear his Black Watch tartan waistcoat from Brooks Brothers.
@Ken, I'll be looking forward to seeing what's going on in December 2026!!
DeleteMy Christmas morning outfit is a red plaid Pendleton wool shirt and corduroy pants. The shirt shows up well in photos.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite vintage Bean cords, paired with another timeworn Bean classic red chamois shirt, with corduroy trim! Thanks again!
ReplyDeleteMy Birthday suit fitted smartly against Charlotte Thomas Bed Sheets of high quality Merino wool fabric woven with small amounts of gold carat and a silk jacquard….clouds of blankets of Mulberry Silk, random heaps of assorted woven throws of baby yak and alpaca first sheared wool, topped with an assortment small, expensive dogs that ever so adoringly snore.
ReplyDeleteFor headwear, Sferra Utopia Eiderdown Pillow of amazing softness and warmth, all designed to tenderly cradle your head, cocoon you into the sweetest of euphoric dreams.
As one can guess-I am sleeping in that day.
Cheers to all.
I've got three or four wool tartan ties that I enjoy every year between Thanksgiving and New Year's.
ReplyDeleteBest Regards,
Heinz-Ulrich
December 12, 2024 Update -- A meter long red wool stocking cap purchased many years ago in Norway along with a couple of more recent Estonian-made ski caps brought to me by the Grand Duchess this last summer. There is also a tartan bow tie plus a lovely pair of wool flannel glen plaid trousers plus another lovely understated pair in a dark green and maroon, which have actually been in the seasonal rotation for nine years now. And, of course, various Norwegian sweaters, which I enjoy wearing from late October into April each year.
DeleteKind Advent 2024 Regards from Michigan,
H-U
For Christmas eve a holiday bow tie, pink shirt, green vest and flannels. For today, chestnut colored Polo cords with pheasant embroidery and a color matching Vineland and brown suede loafers
ReplyDelete19 years ago my husband, who is not a gift giver, had a pair of simple gold hoop earrings made for me for Christmas. They are classic hoops with a little twist (my style exactly.) It was a thoughtful and beautiful gift and I only take them off to shower or sleep. It's the best thing he's ever given me.
ReplyDeleteMy trusty Oleana of Norway wool ski jumper that I have owned for almost 25 years. It’s got an all-over Fair Isle type pattern, and hence, is the most Christmassy looking item I dare wear, even if it’s not red and green (red and green are just a bit too naff-looking for me, worn on one’s body,).
ReplyDeleteMy lovely Oleana of Norway sweater finally succumbed to wool moths last year. I now wear a Dale of Norway cardigan with snowflake patterns but it's not the same. My backup sweater is a simple navy cotton-cashmere number with a huge Westie puppy on the front. If it snows around Christmas and if I will be spending any amount of time out of doors, I might put on a hand knit Mati Ventrillon Fair Isle jumper with a hoody as it's the warmest thing I have. Thanks to this blog, I also have a couple of Bosie Fair Isle sweaters that I enjoy wearing.
DeleteIn a ‘born on third base’ situation, I can lay claim to the Clan MacDonald tartan and have slacks made in the modern version. For Christmas Eve services they are a built-in GTH pattern that goes very well with a plain blazer and tie. At this point, if I wore anything else my acquaintances would ask questions!
ReplyDeleteChristmas Day I often wear kakhis with a sweater (between trip to Scotland and dating a few Norwegian women I have a nice selections).
I love all the comments as I love holiday dressing! I’m a retired teacher, my final 15 years were working with Autistic middle school kids. Over the years I collected up enough Christmas items to ewear a different one each day between Thanksgiving and Christmas. The kids loved them and I loved making them happy. I kept a few items like a Talbot’s red boiled wool vest with a vague Christmas patter embroidered in white along the edge, and a black vest with snowmen appliquéd from Cross Creek. The rest is jewelry I’ve gotten through the years like a beautiful gold wreath pin I purchased the year we were married from a high end jewelry store in town. It has small rubies and sapphires (I never understood why not emeralds) sparsely scattered on the delicate pin. I worried about purchasing something that I only wore a few times a year. It turned out to be one of my best purchases!
ReplyDeleteThis is a season of tolerance. Rock the embroidered cords, the tartan pants, the garish vests, and even the Christmas sweaters! Just be nice to everyone! It's a pretty simple concept, and it really does work all year long!
ReplyDeletePutting a virtual heart on your comment, caro Vespone!
DeleteHear hear!
DeleteThere are many items in the rotation that work well for the Advent and Christmas season(s), but for me it is the four or five wool tartan neckties along with three silk and one wool tartan (self-tie) bow ties that stand out as favorites. Incredibly vapid of me, I realize, but dressing with a bit of holiday snap, crackle, and/or pop -- and seeing others attired similarly -- at this most festive time of year brings me great pleasure. Even more than usual.
ReplyDeleteKind Regards,
Heinz-Ulrich
Bought a pair of new, with tags, wool blackwatch slacks at a thrift store in Colorado. Beautiful, and the tag read that they were from a top men’s clothier in Dallas. BUT, they were so uncomfortable due to not being lined. Wore them to the symphony on New Years Eve and was squirming throughout. Sold them on Ebay for 5x what I paid. Replaced them, stylistically at least, with a matching set of tartan neckties, one red, one green, from Tommy Hilfiger. -JDV
ReplyDeleteWe are somewhat more casual. Green or maroon sweater with an OCBD of the opposite color, khakis, and some goofy socks since all shoes are removed indoors. Merry Christmas everyone, and thank you Muffy for such a fun site!
ReplyDeleteTartan slacks, with proper colour shetland crewnecks! And some Bean gumshoes! Cheers!
ReplyDeleteFirst time commenting on SWNE. My employer recently hosted a large holiday gala at a swanky hotel downtown. I planned to wear a simple black cocktail dress. However, browsing online I saw a beautiful tartan gown with a full, taffeta skirt and modest, black velvet bodice. It reminded me of something my grandmother - a woman of impeccable taste & style - would’ve worn for holiday events. I told myself it was too expensive and over-the-top, but I couldn’t stop thinking about it. After a couple of weeks, I went back and saw that it was on sale, and there was one left in my size. I figured it must be fate, and bought the dress. It arrived 2 days before the event, I looked and felt beautiful wearing it, and got dozens of compliments. Though it’s for limited occasions, it’s a dress I plan to keep forever and pull out at Christmastime for years to come.
ReplyDeleteThis comment brings back happy memories of attending Christmas parties in a similar, perhaps not quite as elegant, outfit. Back in the 1970s I bought a long taffeta Royal Stewart skirt with black velvet trim from Talbots. After a summer trip to Scotland in 1977, I paired it with a white cotton blouse with large jabot and a cutaway black velvet jacket with silver buttons purchased in the port town of Oban, Scotland. One of my all time beloved outfits.
DeleteWe each have flannel Christmas tree hats. Its jauntiness brings smiles from others.
ReplyDelete.... my floor length black velvet dressing gown over Peterman's white night frock with jabot collar.
ReplyDeleteDoes anyone know where I might find elegant velvet trousers with elasticated waists? I have had major stomach surgery and cannot wear zip-up trousers. I am looking for some drap to such trousers, if possible. Any suggestions are welcome.
ReplyDeleteEileen Fisher
ReplyDeleteAhh, yes, EF! Thank you! And they now ship to Switzerland, too.
DeleteGTH pants, and a proper Shetland, crew neck sweater, or Irish Fisherman's sweater, possibly a Bean Norweigen fisherman's sweater! ENJOY!🎄
ReplyDeleteWe're heading to the deep south to see my mother in law and family after Christmas morning mass. We won't be bundled up in wools and parkas down there, but some flannel and a cashmere sweater will do nicely. Being with those you love is most important.
ReplyDeleteA tweed blazer worn with a tie. A pair of corduroys with loafers. Just like any day.
ReplyDeleteI am all for one or two festive pieces this time of year. Heavier fabrics and weaves in Fair Isle and plaids work well, nothing with characters or cartoons. But as with all things, proper restraint is key. Afterall, what you look like should never be the most interesting thing about you and it is easy to tip over into gauche.
ReplyDeleteMy Christmas go-to is a bright red L.L. Bean down vest, worn over a white dress shirt and a tartan tie (Fraser or Macgregor are family tartans for me and both are heavy on the red, with lots of green as well). The best pant is a dark green flannel but charcoal will do just fine. This vest is the only bright red thing I own and I very rarely wear it except at Christmas, so the outfit feels "holiday special."
ReplyDeleteAs a young girl, I specifically remember dressing festive for Christmas.....a bright red velvet full skirt with a plaid cummerbund, paired with a white cotton Laura Ashley blouse with a shawl collar. And a green bow in my hair. Miss those days....such great memories of Christmas, but more importantly, the anticipation of it.
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